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Conquering fear

I’ve spent the day at a workshop with Stephen and Valery Cobern working on conquering fear in my life.  There is so much to say and yet nothing at all, but during the course of the day I was reminded of Marianne Williamson’s oft mentioned quote from her book ‘Return to Love’ and thought I’d share it below:

“Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate. Our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure. It is our light, not our darkness that most frightens us. We ask ourselves, Who am I to be brilliant, gorgeous, talented, fabulous? Actually, who are you not to be? You are a child of God. Your playing small does not serve the world. There is nothing enlightened about shrinking so that other people won’t feel insecure around you. We are all meant to shine, as children do. We were born to make manifest the glory of God that is within us. It’s not just in some of us; it’s in everyone. And as we let our own light shine, we unconsciously give other people permission to do the same. As we are liberated from our own fear, our presence automatically liberates others.”

And in those few words, lies the heart of the matter.  I finally realised today that I have spent a long, long time not putting some things into action simply because they conflict with the view that I hold of myself that I’m not good enough, because if I was good enough I’d have to live up to my potential.  Enough said I think!

Linda Parkinson-Hardman

Transformational counsellor, coach and women's health advocate. Professionally I'm an information scientist who specialises in change management, culture change and adoption of digital technologies in large enterprises and organisations. I am a writer and author of nine books to date, and I've edited a further seven; phew what a lot for a Thursday afternoon :-)

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  1. You – Fellow of the Royal Society of Arts, Manufacture and Commerce, you! Go get that light out from under that bushel

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