Jenny’s Story – Overcoming fibroids and coping with the menopause

All started several years ago … fibroids. A wait and see approach was taken by my doctors. Eventually due to bloating, painful nauseous periods (having to take time off work) low iron count and feeling very constantly tired,  I decided to see a gynaecologist.

A total hysterectomy was preformed on me at 51years of age. I had wanted to keep my ovaries and discussed this with my gynaecologist and we came to an agreement – should he find anything nasty while operating he would remove them … there was nothing wrong with them (“unremarkable” was the term used in my medical report) but he took them anyway. I have since learned that even if my ovaries were left in blood supply to them may have been hampered causing them to atrophy so who’s to know if that was a good or not so good thing to do.

Post operation was a nightmare – 2 weeks after I went into full menopause, dreadful sweats, hot flushes (several an hour!) headaches, foggy head, balance problems … toughed it all out without medication ( I tried over the counter products to no avail.

A complication caused by the actual operation (keyhole) has been peripheral nerve damage  to my upper left thigh which manifests as slight numbness to the touch and occasionally a little weakness – I am only vaguely aware of it now.

Five  months on I feel better especially in the lower back tummy region, have more energy but the head feelings are still a bother … better if I get good sleeps.

Some nights I have had to resort to a sleeping tablet as symptoms have overwhelmed me but I take each day as it comes and pay more attention to my emotional and physical needs.

I am a bit of a nervous nelly and had post- natal depression with my first son (24 years ago but not with my other 2 sons). These symptoms have returned but as I recognise them for what they are (hormonally induced) I can cope better now.

Overall menopause for me (surgically induced) has meant like a kind of death but with sites like yours (which have helped tremendously in verbalising how we all feel) and mentoring with friends, there is life on the other side of it and I can see it as a renewal or perhaps a stock -take of how to move forward.

I was completely naive of menopause and it was like my first period and having my first baby – shocking … but I have gotten used to it like all great changes in our female life!!

Thank you so much for all the information you have provided and to all the women that have shared their experiences.

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Linda Parkinson-Hardman

Transformational counsellor, coach and women's health advocate. Professionally I'm an information scientist who specialises in change management, culture change and adoption of digital technologies in large enterprises and organisations. I am a writer and author of nine books to date, and I've edited a further seven; phew what a lot for a Thursday afternoon :-)

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3 Responses

  1. Sounds menopausal to me Mags and it depends on whether you’d had your ovaries removed or not, if you had then you’d have had it immediately, if not then it’s normally a year or two before you would have hit menopause naturally.

  2. mags says:

    I had my Hysterectomy 7 years ago and did not really have any problems at all. However 7 years down the line I am getting the hot sweats, mood swings, fatigue, tears for no reason at all, joint aches…….the list just goes on and on, you name it I seem to be getting it. Is this normal to be getting all of these symptoms now? I thought that I would have had all of this pretty much as soon as I had my operation. I have been to my GP and she said menopause and sent me for a blood test, I am waiting for the results from that. I had my gall bladder removed a couple of months ago and my thyroid was checked then with everything ok (hypothyroidism) so does that mean that my hormones are not playing up – it´really confusing. Any advice would be appreciated please because I feel like i am just loosing it at the moment.

  3. Andrea says:

    Hi there thanks for sharing your experience – I too have had a total ( abdominal cause the fibroids were so big ) hysterectomy last May at age 46 . My overies were taken since they were cancerous – I went through 18 weeks of chemo lost my hair eyelashes eyebrows 🙂 not shaving legs was great lol . All that was easier to take then the menopause symptoms of hotflashes – they are so severe every two hours or so that I only were black tops as I get so wet and it is embarrassing . I am not allowed to take a hormone replacement since I had cance and also carry the breast cancer gene … Over the counter products work a little making them less often and they don’ t last so long – I take Whole Foods complete Hotflash symptoms vitamins 🙂 Emotionally I think I am ok I have two daughters 22 & 26 wonderful husband – son – in law and grandson 🙂 I hope your journey being a ” new” woman today will continue and we both will accept the new ” great” us 🙂 cyber hugs Andrea

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